This week we accompanied our first born son, Noam, to the IDF army recruitment center in Jerusalem, where he was inducted into an IDF combat unit, with three months of basic training lying ahead of him.

On the evenings before a young man goes in the IDF, neither he nor his parents get much sleep.

The soon-to-be IDF inductee parties with his friends. The parents also do not sleep – out of worry, fear and apprehension.

Our Noam, 19, was named after a soldier, Noam Yehuda, who was born in Philadelphia and who grew up in Safed, and killed by a PLO missile at the age of nineteen, on the fourth day of the Lebanon War in 1982.

The enemy was the same: Arafat and his terrorists who had set up a world-wide terrorist organization from his base in Lebanon and was held responsible for the murders and massacres of hundreds of Jews and Israelis throughout the world. The irony is that our own Noam, nineteen years later, is going to be forced to fight the same enemy – this time on our own land.

An enemy who had duped the world to such an extent that he received the Nobel Peace Prize! An enemy who was invited by the Israeli government to return from Tunis, given arms by the IDF and who turned the tables to set up cities of refuge for his “troops” to again launch attacks against Israelis.

Unlike many other Israelis, Noam holds a US passport. He could easily skip the country without too much difficulty and attend university in the US. However, he chooses to stay and serve.

When you take your son on that proverbial ride to the draft induction point, your son’s entire life flashes in front of you. All those special moments are quashed into those twenty five minutes of negotiating Jerusalem rush hour traffic. His moment of birth. His Brit. His first step. His first day in nursery school. His first day in first grade. His performance in the local singing group and how he “cut” his first cassette. His bar mitzvah. His going off to yeshiva. His summer of work with down syndrome youngsters. And his resounding Shabbat meal send-off with his friends, when they sang sweet Shabbat melodies along with varying sounds, varying from Psalms to Punk Rock.

A few nights ago, we watched the evening news with Noam. Thousands of Arab rioters shooting guns wildly in the air, as they ran through the streets precariously toting the teetering body of yet another “shahid” – “holy martyr” (a title given to terrorists who blow themselves up with innocent Israeli civilians for the “Glory of Palestine”) – Noam’s comment: “Well, Wish me luck! I’m going to be in a war”.

Noam’s mood on the day of his induction was enthusiastic and adventurous, joined by two friends from his yeshiva who were being recruited together with him as well as three other friends who had come to part with him and wish him luck.

Watching our son joke with his friends while waiting to be called to get on the bus, our heart swelled with pride at this wholesome, fine son of ours who was eager to serve his country despite the gruesome predicament the country is in right now

This past year has been a year of reflection for Noam. He was glad to have made the decision not to go straight into the army following graduation from high school. Instead he chose a Yeshiva preparation program with a curriculum readies the yeshiva students for the army service through deep philosophical discussions and basic physical education to prepare him for rigorous army training.

It has also been a year of funerals. Too many funerals. Noam told us after returning from the funeral of our daughter’s 20 year old youth counselor who had been shot dead in a drive by shooting, that “Now I know what I am going into the army for. Going to all these funerals has made me aware of what I must do: to protect the people of Israel”.

At the induction center, only about twenty after we got there, Noam’s name was called out. The time had come to part. We hand over to the IDF a wholesome, happy, wonderful son. Noam stretched out his arms and held each of us in a tight embrace. The lump in each of our throats choked back the words we had each planned to say. All we manage to say is: “Good luck. Stay safe, May God be with you”.

Please God, we pray, return him to us unharmed, safe and sound – in body and mind.

Insert: From a reporter’s desk on the day of my son’s induction
David Bedein
Israel Resource News Agency
Beit Agron Int’l Press Center
Jerusalem, Israel

Returning to my desk at the press center in Jerusalem, on the day of my son’s induction into the IDF, I look at several things that bring to mind the wars of the past. My grandfather’s diary from when he was an American soldier in World War I. A postcard that my father, an American soldier, sent his mother in World War II.

And my favorite book from childhood: the chronicle of the Civil War by Bruce Catton. As I send my son off to war, I cannot help but thinking of my visit to the Antitiem battlefield only 18 months ago, when I was covering the Israel-Syria negotiations in nearby Shepherdstown, West Virginia. I stood on that preserved pristine battleground, and thought of a generation in America when both two sides fought in battle who believed in what they were fighting for, with each side ready to pay the supreme sacrifice for what they believed.

Walking down that eery bloody lane, I could hear the drum roll from Stephen Crane’s Red Badge of Courage and the poetry of Steven Vincent Benet, knowing full well that I would soon return to Israel to send my son into battle, dedicated to fight for a country that we choose to fight for.

Since I cover the Palestinian Authority and since I interview the officials of the PA, I know full well that they are equally dedicated to the fight for.

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David Bedein
David Bedein is an MSW community organizer and an investigative journalist.   In 1987, Bedein established the Israel Resource News Agency at Beit Agron to accompany foreign journalists in their coverage of Israel, to balance the media lobbies established by the PLO and their allies.   Mr. Bedein has reported for news outlets such as CNN Radio, Makor Rishon, Philadelphia Inquirer, Los Angeles Times, BBC and The Jerusalem Post, For four years, Mr. Bedein acted as the Middle East correspondent for The Philadelphia Bulletin, writing 1,062 articles until the newspaper ceased operation in 2010. Bedein has covered breaking Middle East negotiations in Oslo, Ottawa, Shepherdstown, The Wye Plantation, Annapolis, Geneva, Nicosia, Washington, D.C., London, Bonn, and Vienna. Bedein has overseen investigative studies of the Palestinian Authority, the Expulsion Process from Gush Katif and Samaria, The Peres Center for Peace, Peace Now, The International Center for Economic Cooperation of Yossi Beilin, the ISM, Adalah, and the New Israel Fund.   Since 2005, Bedein has also served as Director of the Center for Near East Policy Research.   A focus of the center's investigations is The United Nations Relief and Works Agency for Palestine Refugees in the Near East (UNRWA). In that context, Bedein authored Roadblock to Peace: How the UN Perpetuates the Arab-Israeli Conflict - UNRWA Policies Reconsidered, which caps Bedein's 28 years of investigations of UNRWA. The Center for Near East Policy Research has been instrumental in reaching elected officials, decision makers and journalists, commissioning studies, reports, news stories and films. In 2009, the center began decided to produce short movies, in addition to monographs, to film every aspect of UNRWA education in a clear and cogent fashion.   The center has so far produced seven short documentary pieces n UNRWA which have received international acclaim and recognition, showing how which UNRWA promotes anti-Semitism and incitement to violence in their education'   In sum, Bedein has pioneered The UNRWA Reform Initiative, a strategy which calls for donor nations to insist on reasonable reforms of UNRWA. Bedein and his team of experts provide timely briefings to members to legislative bodies world wide, bringing the results of his investigations to donor nations, while demanding reforms based on transparency, refugee resettlement and the demand that terrorists be removed from the UNRWA schools and UNRWA payroll.   Bedein's work can be found at: www.IsraelBehindTheNews.com and www.cfnepr.com. A new site,unrwa-monitor.com, will be launched very soon.